What can i do to help the girl i love, and my baby?

Life can really throw some crap at you sometimes cant' it? It gets your hopes up, and then it throws you down. First let me correct an answer above me... there is nothing wrong with a man crying. If you need to cry. Cry! plain and simple. If you need to scream. Scream! If you need to punch something, Punch something! Sometimes beating the crap out of a mattress is quite helpful. Something this traumatic for the both of you is going to bring up quite an array of emotions. Whatever you are feeling today, you may feel something entirely different tomorrow. Most important thing is, if you really love the girl... and you believe she really loves you... do not grow distant from her. Continue to be there for her. That is your responsibility to her. This is a LOT for her to deal with at 15. This could easily break a 30 year old. 15 years old's are much more fragile. You need to remind her to be strong because just like she believed this baby needed her... there is a baby in her future that is going to need her too... so it is her responsibility to get up every day and keep moving even if she doesn't feel like it. Be glad that it isn't too late to save her. Losing the baby is much better than losing her and the baby. And like my husband tells me... I am enough. I am currently pregnant and I have so many fears about this.... we are only 7 weeks... but he ures me that I am enough for him. If we don't succeed this time, we will try again. In your case, you have to lean on each other, and since this time didn't work... you can try again (i propose at a much later date... when she is above the age of 18). The timing will be better, her body will be more prepared, you will both be more ready for this than you are now. Nothing is ever wasted! One day you guys will be able to help someone else go through a tough time because you will both survive this and come out the other side. And I promise... the other side holds such dreams and joys that you don't want to miss it. You just have to believe in your future and KNOW that it's worth holding on to get there. Sorry my answer is so long... I hope I have helped you some. I will say a prayer for you both. that's another thought... if I'm not overstepping boundaries here... I have been in a similar situation to your girlfriend... and if it weren't for God... I never would have found the strength to make it to today. Pray and He will meet you right where you are. Believe and KNOW that everything happens for a reason. No doubt, no discontentment.... believe and know.