Just found out I'm pregnant with baby number 2?

my first two are 2 years 2 months apart exactly. there was some conflict for the first few months but just like with everything else the older child will need to be taught what she can and can't do with the baby. And she will get used to the fact that the baby will require lot of attention. get her involved by have her get the diapers and wipes ready or helping when feeding the baby so that she doesn't feel left out. make sure that you set aside special time for just her if you can. as far as the birthdays, they are not going to care if they share a party until they are much older and that will give you plenty of time to figure out how to do it. I know it doesn't seem fare to make them share a special day but at the same time it would not be fare to the people who you invit to have to go to two parties so close together aspecially if the kids are not worried about it.